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You’re Not Ugly. You Just Look Like You

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I photograph a lot of people. Almost everyone believes they are ugly. Your grandmother. Your child. Your best friend. Most models. Most actors. Maybe even you.

“Oh, don’t take my photo, I’ll break your camera!” laughs the 80-year-old grandfather. When he dies a few months later, his grandkids will treasure this reminder of his “ugly mug.”

“Please delete this,” says a dear old friend. She looks beautiful. She looks like herself. She’s been captured in a moment in which she is utterly comfortable in her skin. And she hates it.

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Money

The Financial Trappings of ‘Lifestyle Creep’

Whether you’re aware of it or not, at some point in life, you may fall victim to a phenomenon known as lifestyle creep. It’s a common financial trap that can catch you off guard without your knowledge.

Typically, this tends to occur as you progress in your professional career and your income increases. However, it’s important to note that not everyone experiences lifestyle creep, so it’s essential not to make sweeping generalizations assuming everyone has encountered this trap.

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Life Advice

If You’re Blaming Others, You’re Avoiding Responsibility In Your Life

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No one gets through life unscathed. And while it is 0% your fault that these things happen to you, it is 100% your responsibility to deal with the aftermath of what your situation has given to you.

I had one client a few years ago who blamed all of his life’s shortcomings on the fact that his father had been largely absent during his childhood.

Having emotionally unavailable parents is a hinderance, no doubt. So is having one of your best friends die. So is being raped. So is being bullied for years. So are a lot of things that happen to people, every day, around the world.

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Life Advice

8 Almost Unmistakable Signs a Woman Wants You

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1. She’s primping

Maybe it goes back to our primal instincts to present ourselves in a way that attracts the best mate, but if she’s doing things such as smoothing her blouse, playing with her hair or adjusting her posture, she’s into you. “Most of the time she’s not aware she’s doing these things, so if a guy notices them he’s going to be clued in,” Maresca-Kramer says. Compliment her efforts, and if you make her blush, even better.

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Work-Life/Goals

How to See Faster Results by Tracking Your Progress

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Photo by Isaac Smith

Tracking your progress, no matter what it is that you’re trying to accomplish, serves as both a motivator and a tool to determine what works and what doesn’t. In my experience, it’s one of the best things that you can do if you want to see results and see them quickly.

There are quite a few different ways to track your progress, and we’ll go through those in a bit, but first:

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Self-Improvement

Why You Must Stop Overthinking & Start Taking Action

The only reason you haven’t started taking action yet is that you’re in analysis paralysis or afraid of what other people will think.

When you continue to analyze each possible outcome it stops you in your tracks. It’s normal to think things through till the end but when you stay in thinking mode you never take action. It’s okay to fail, you’ll get better anyway.

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Life Advice

How Fear Will Shape Your Legacy

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The way a person perceives fear shapes their life, relationships, and legacy. From an early age, we are taught to view fear as a measure of danger. If something scares us, we are encouraged to stay away, while safe things attract us. Fear is presented as a mechanism to keep us secure, cautioning us against strangers, dangerous roads, large animals, unfamiliar situations, and risks.

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Life Advice

The Story Of The Chinese Farmer

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Once upon a time there was a Chinese farmer whose horse ran away. That evening, all of his neighbors came around to commiserate. They said, “We are so sorry to hear your horse has run away. This is most unfortunate.” The farmer said, “Maybe.” The next day the horse came back bringing seven wild horses with it, and in the evening everybody came back and said, “Oh, isn’t that lucky. What a great turn of events. You now have eight horses!” The farmer again said, “Maybe.” 

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