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1. My wife and I abstained from sex before marriage for religious reasons. On our honeymoon, it took about thirty minutes for me to convince her to undress. She was very nervous, but that was ok, she’s always been a shy person and I knew we would have to take it slow.
1. Listening. When we say “right there” do NOT change what you are doing!! That usually means we’re close to an orgasm and if you change something it all goes away. And please make noise! Sex should be fun, noisy, sweaty and a good time!
How do I know if I’m good in bed? It’s a question we all ask ourselves from time to time but hardly ever ask other people, probably partly because we are afraid of what they will say.
In general, we all think we are good in bed. After all, there is no evidence to the contrary is there? Nobody runs away halfway through, or deletes us on Facebook the day after. No, all the information points to a godlike stature in the sack and who are we to argue?
I had no idea what the difference was between sex and making love until I was 23.
I was with an older gentleman at the time and he asked me
“what’s your definition of making love? I replied, rose petals and candlelight. He said that’s your definition of making love? Wow, there is a lot I need to teach you.
(photo: @olivia_snow)
In Christian theology, the sexual act is an icon of the Trinity and of the saving relationship between Jesus and the Church.
It is an icon of the Trinity because God is a communion of persons, who all completely give of their entire selves to each other. The person of the Father subsumes his entire existential being and substance to beget the Son, who, composed of the same divine essence, gives back the same total self-giving love in turn to sustain the Father. This total self giving of two divine persons begets the holy Spirit, who is interpreted to be the love between the Father and Son that is shared between them.
