Accepting Someone for Who They Are
When starting a new relationship, it’s tempting to see all the ways we could improve our new partner. If only they were a little more tidy, outgoing, affectionate, or any other trait we think they “should” have, then the relationship would be just perfect. However, attempting to change someone to mold them into our imagined ideal partner is not only futile, but harmful.
People can only be who they inherently are. While we can all help bring out the best in each other, fundamental aspects of someone’s personality and behavior are unlikely to be altered, no matter how much we push. If you feel the need to dramatically change a new partner, you’re likely just incompatible.
Rather than criticizing your date’s minor flaws, focus on getting to know them for who they authentically are. Look for the wonderful qualities they already possess. Instead of dwelling on what’s “missing”, appreciate their unique strengths and quirks. A fulfilling relationship involves fully accepting someone else, not viewing them as a fixer-upper project.
Attempting to overhaul someone almost never works out well. You’ll both only end up feeling judged, frustrated and resentful. But when you choose to see your partner for who they are and not who you want them to be, that’s when real intimacy and trust can flourish.
The truth is, when it comes to relationships we attract what we expect deep down. If you believe you deserve to be with someone exactly as they are, that mindset will guide you toward a compatible match who can love you back the same way. Rather than trying to force a square peg into a round hole, look for someone who already fits into your life in a natural, effortless way.
So next time you’re tempted to view a new partner as a work-in-progress, remember that real love lies in fully embracing someone, not trying to change them. When you let go of expectations, you open up space for an authentic relationship to blossom.
What is Dollarization?
“Dollarization” refers to the process by which a country adopts a foreign currency (most commonly the U.S. dollar) as its official currency, either in place of or alongside its own domestic currency. This can happen either officially or unofficially. Here’s what typically happens when a country dollarizes:
What is the AI Singularity?
The AI singularity, often referred to simply as “the singularity,” is a hypothetical point in the future when technological growth becomes uncontrollable and irreversible, leading to unforeseeable changes to human civilization. This concept is primarily associated with the idea that artificial general intelligence (AGI) — machines that can perform any intellectual task that a human being can — will improve themselves or create even more advanced AI in a rapid feedback loop, leading to an exponential explosion in intelligence. Here are some key points to understand about the AI singularity:
Picture of the Day
Around 19th century egyptomania was so strong in europe that rich tourists would bring mummies from Egypt to unwrap them in parties.
Mummy unrollings were only one symptom of the Egyptomania sweeping England in the 19th century. Europeans had been buying mummies since Shakespeare’s times to use them as medicine, pigment or even charms; now, the Napoleonic wars and England’s colonial expanse had created a renewed interest in Egypt’s past, to the point that, as the French aristocrat and Trappist monk Abbot Ferdinand de Géramb wrote to Pasha Mohammed Ali in 1833, “it would be hardly respectable, on one’s return from Egypt, to present oneself without a mummy in one hand and a crocodile in the other.”
No One Can Read Your Mind
In the intricate dance of human relationships, whether with partners, friends, or family, there’s a common misstep many of us make: expecting others to read our minds. This silent expectation, though often stemming from a place of vulnerability, can lead to misunderstandings, unmet needs, and feelings of disconnect. Let’s delve into why it’s essential to remember that our loved ones aren’t mind-readers and the importance of direct communication.
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He Played ‘Chunk’ In The Goonies. See Jeff Cohen Now At 49 – Wanderer
An Apocalyptic Meditation on Doomscrolling – MIT
24 NEET Memes That Perfectly Sums Up the Secluded Life – Ned Hardy
These slippers are extremely comfortable and can be used in indoor and outdoor settings. I wear it all day long – Amazon
The Best Way to Get Your Kids to Actually Listen – Life Hacker
Nina Simone: Her Art and Life in 33 Songs – Pitchfork
Monster Wrestling And Other Weird, Wonderful Sports from Around the World – Atlas Obscura
‘Terminator’ Star Arnold Schwarzenegger Claims “Overbabying” Will Lead To A “Generation Of Wimps” – Bored Panda
Hackers are selling the data of millions lifted from 23andMe’s genetic database – ARS Technica
Teen Boy Who Ate All The Food In The House Wonders Why There’s No Food In The House – Babylon Bee
I Am Begging Restaurants to Stop Explaining That ‘Everything Is Shareable’ – Bon Appetit
How To Be Judgmental — But In A Good Way – Fatherly
Monday’s Powerball jackpot up to $1.55 billion as lottery losing streak continues – NPR
Why tech workers are sleeping in expensive boxes – The Hustle
Charted: The U.S. Mortgage Rate vs. Existing Home Sales – Visual Capitalist
An hour-by-hour guide to your bedtime routine – VOX
MGM Resorts Refused to Pay Ransom in Cyberattack on Casinos – WSJ
Harvard psychologists have been studying what it takes to raise ‘good’ kids. Here are 6 tips – Upworthy
Grizzly bear kills couple and their dog at Banff National Park in Canada – CBS
The Dumping Grounds
Think Twice Before Falling for the Person They Could Be
We’ve all been there before – you meet someone who seems to have it all on paper. They’re charming, attractive, have similar interests as you, and seem to ‘get’ you in a way no one else does. As you get to know them more, you also start to see glimpses of their potential. If they just applied themselves a little bit more, stopped certain bad habits, or made some life changes, they could truly thrive and be an amazing partner.
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12 Entrepreneurs Who Make Over $20k/Month Reveal What They Do
1. We do ~$85k/month in revenue. We are a small software development company and license proprietary software to prime contractors for the Federal government, so our contracts are mostly long term (3-5 years). I have 5 FTE’s including my wife. My wife and I pay ourselves $100k/yr each, make sure we have our employees’ undivided attention through bonuses, and we keep the rest of the money in the company for reinvestment. Started in 2015 with $8k/month in revenue and have grown it since.
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