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Hey,
I’m kind of stuck and hoping you can shed some light on things for me. See, I’ve been with my girlfriend for the same amount of time I’ve been divorced—about seven years. She’s amazing, truly. We’ve grown together, laughed, and supported each other through thick and thin. And here’s the thing: she’s ready for marriage, and part of me is too. But, there’s this other part, this nagging voice in the back of my head, that’s holding me back.
So myself (34m) and my wife (30f) have been together for 5 years. Married for two of those years. We have an amazing marriage, never once had to suspect each other of anything. Our trust is absolute, so this issue is more related to my personal ick and discomfort above all.
I know everyone has a past, I know I’ve had a past. I know she’s had a past. We’ve both had prior relationships and prior casual encounters, so I’m not judgemental. Everyone has a past.
She has a wide circle of friends, she’s very active on social media, she texts a lot of them often, lots of guys and girls. Lots of them she’s known back from her high school and University days before we got married.
1. If a woman comes up to you and asks like she’s your best friend. Play along, she’s probably trying to shake a douche.
2. If someone ever needs a pad or a tampon, you give them one. Doesn’t matter if they’re a stranger, if you hate them, whatever. You always give them one.
3. If you see a fellow lady leaking during her period, quietly pull her to the side and say something.
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