So I’ve always been attracted to very feminine men, but something about my boyfriend doesn’t sit right with me. He tells me he loves me and desires me, but he is the first guy I’ve been with that doesn’t really initiate sex. Here are just some of a few things he does that makes me think this …
Disclaimer, I’m a bisexual woman so I don’t care if he’s bisexual. I just think he’s gay.
- He’s 26 and never had a girlfriend
- Seems to only really get going when his butt is played with.
- Never initiates sex. I do most of it.
- His dick goes soft 50% of the time we have sex
- He told me he tried to masturbate and think about a guy fucking him to see if he was into men. He claims he isint.
- he’s into very feminine things, which I know doesn’t make somebody gay…. But it’s just the way he talks about things. “Oooo yesss queen” “that outfit is so awesome” “let’s do our skincare routine” I just feel like I have a best female friend instead of a boyfriend.
- he seems to be mentally elsewhere during sex. He says he’s just “in his head” but idk.
- a lot of times, he says he just wants me to do hand things to him. Or touch his butt Or suck his dick. Because he “doesn’t have the energy” or he’s too tired for sex.
I hate doing butt stuff to him, but I love him and want him to feel good so I do what I can.
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Theodore Lee is the editor of Caveman Circus. He strives for self-improvement in all areas of his life, except his candy consumption, where he remains a champion gummy worm enthusiast. When not writing about mindfulness or living in integrity, you can find him hiding giant bags of sour patch kids under the bed.