How did you two meet?
Tinder actually! We first saw each other on there, and hung out over time before we started actually dating. I was extremely nervous when we first hung out because I knew about the height difference but it didn’t bother her at all
Did she know about your height before the first meet?
She did! She told me it wasnt a problem. As a tall girl she sort of opened her boundaries for shorty guys cause not all guys are as tall as her.
Was her dating history mostly short guys? Like was/is that her type?
It’s varied. She says I’m one of the shortest guys she’s dated though. She says all the tall guys were asshole because of their height, like that’s all they had to offer basically.
When you first started dating, was the height difference something you had to overcome or were you both comfortable with it immediately, that you were both aware she perhaps liked smaller guys and you preferred taller women?
For her it was no problem. For me it was admittedly something I had to get used to. Being so short, finding women that actually liked short guys is always difficult where I am at, so when I actually found one I halfway didn’t believe it. But I eventually got used to it of course!
Do people ever stare at you?
Every time we go somewhere we get interesting stares. And they’re different types of stare’s as well. Women stare at us differently than the guys do and you can tell, it’s quite funny actually. Especially when they see our daughter!
What kind of stares do you get?
So, for the girls, some of them are “awe”, but most of them are towards her, and to me give off a “why are you with a guy so short?” Kind of vibe.
As for guys staring, it’s “damn wonder how he pulled her”
Who’s on top when hugging ? I mean are you in her arms or the opposite?
Uhhh sort of… both? It depends on if we hug while standing or if she is sitting. Most of the time I’m wrapped up like a burrito in her arms and she and I both love it!
Does she like to wear chucks? Or even heels?
She occasionally wears platform shoes, she tries not to around me out of respect but I never care!
Are any sex positions difficult because of the height difference?
Uhhhhhh not that we’ve really struggled with? It’s pretty easy. She’s flexible.
Did she ever lift you up like a baby during an exciting moment?
She can’t lift me because of an accident she was in, I can lift her but she doesn’t like being lifted at all
How did you figure out you were right for each other?
Honestly, we just have never argued. The vibe and feelings between us are just impeccable. I love her tons.
And watching her become the mother she has become has just blown me away.
Do you predict your kid will grow up taller or shorter?
I pray she’s tall! I’d love for her to be as tall as her mother!
