Alright, look. I’m about to drop some Negative Self-Help wisdom on you, so listen up.
There are no more zero days. Period.
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Alright, look. I’m about to drop some Negative Self-Help wisdom on you, so listen up.
There are no more zero days. Period.
Today, let’s tackle a topic that often keeps us awake at night—finding our purpose. And let me be clear: this isn’t about stumbling upon some hidden secret that’s going to make everything click into place. It’s about facing life’s relentless questions head-on.
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This girl is my (f23) best friend since we were kids. I’ve spent 10+ years being her friend but I can tell you she’s not a nice person. She has never been true to anyone in her life.
She cheated on her wonderful boyfriend with her toxic ex while they were living together and were committed to each other. She told me blushing and asked me to keep it a secret. It’s been 2 years since I’ve known and it eats me to hide it from that genuinely nice man.
[Read more…] about “My bestfriend cheated on her boyfriend. Should I tell him?”
Listen up, because this is important. One of the most crucial realizations you will ever have is that you can’t make everyone happy. And the moment you accept that, the moment you stop contorting yourself into a pretzel trying to please every single person in your orbit, is the moment you take your power back.
[Read more…] about Why You Need to Stop Trying to Please the Whole Damn World
Look, I’m not going to sugarcoat this. If you want to make any real progress in your life, in your career, in your relationships – you’re going to have to do some seriously uncomfortable shit. There’s no way around it.
For too long, you’ve probably been tiptoeing through life, desperately trying to avoid anything that makes you remotely uncomfortable. You stay in your cozy little bubble, never venturing outside of it, never truly challenging yourself. And where has that gotten you? Nowhere fast, I’d bet.
[Read more…] about Challenging Yourself is the Only Way Forward
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Watch hundreds of teenagers grow up into adults – and see how their lives turn out – The Pudding
An absolute must read book for trauma survivors. Will definitely help with the healing process – Amazon
Meet Dr. Emily Grace, your AI Therapist who will compassionately guide you through your life’s problem – ChatGPT
O.J. Simpson Dead at 76 After Cancer Battle – TMZ
New AI music generator Udio synthesizes realistic music on demand – ARS Technica
The 15 Most Expensive Video Games In History – Nerdable
Get ready for sneaky new credit card fees – Business Insider
Insights and Advice from a Former People-Pleaser – Tiny Buddha
Man in NYC attacks woman and then gets jumped – Reddit
Can you solve the Brain Teaser of the Day?? – Ned Hardy
There is a reason you see iron workers, welders, and pipeliners wear Tillman gloves. Extremely comfortable and ergonomic. They do an amazing job at protecting yours hands and hold up amazingly – Amazon
Does Mewing Really Sculpt Your Jawline? – Essence
The 6 Best Supplements to Take for Immunity, Dry Skin, and More – Hum
Where Did It All Go Wrong for J.Lo? Weak tour sales, a baffling album-movie-documentary, and general online mockery – The Ringer
How to talk to anyone: the experts’ guide – The Guardian
Truong My Lan: Vietnamese billionaire sentenced to death for $44bn fraud – BBC
The Strangest Places to Visit in the Midwest – Malorie’s Adventure
6 Countries That Make Retiring Abroad (Relatively) Easy – Traveler
So, I wasted my 20s working in a dead end job with no retirement benefits at all and didn’t start my 401k with my current job until I was almost 33 (almost exactly 2 years ago).
I’ve finally gotten comfortable enough financially to start dumping heavily into it and am currently putting away 15% into the Roth 401k option and my company matches 6% pre-tax.
My current balance is just under $18.5k (pending market fluctuations). I feel like I’m way behind after seeing posts from people in their 20s with six figures in their retirement accounts. Someone reassure me that eventually I’ll be able to comfortably retire.