I just found out my (21M) girlfriend (19F) wears pull ups most of the time and I don’t know how to confront her.
So, I’ve been seeing this girl for almost a year and a half and I adore her, she’s everything I could ask for in a woman.
I decided that I very well could be happy with her forever, so I wanted to take things to the next step and spend more time with her to make sure moving in together in the future wouldn’t ruin us, and honestly it has been nice spending more time together.
Last weekend I stayed over at her place instead of mine, and after he shower she walked out of the bathroom in just a t-shirt and a Disney princess pull up.
I thought, okay. Cool. Whatever you like, maybe that’s your kink, idk man.
I didn’t even ask about it to be nice, but honestly, not attractive.
Fast forward and we’re cuddling and watching a movie and she’s laying on me, and it’s pretty nice.
But then I feel a…warmth.
This girl went and pissed in her pull up, and it’s on my legs. Kinda gross, but I’m like “hey, maybe it’s a incontinence thing and I don’t want you to feel bad about.”
So she gets up, and goes and changed into a fresh one and I rinsed off. I asked if she was okay to kinda break the ice on the subject.
She says she’s fine, she just doesn’t like to have to get up and go to the bathroom when she’s home so she wears the pull up because diapers are too small.
She denied it being health or kink related. Not like, defensively but more like “nah I just do it for fun.” Very casual.
I… don’t want to tell her what she can and can’t do, but I find it a little gross that she just pees her pants for the hell of it.
What do I do guys? Should I let this be a deal breaker? How do I approach talking about it without sounding like a dick?
I’m so lost and confused. And honestly, my sex drive has packed it’s bags and flew out the window after that.
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